Get Better Sleep by Avoiding These 14 Pre-Bedtime Mistakes

We know phones before bed disrupt rest. But experts reveal 13 other common habits that sabotage sleep.

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Racing thoughts at bedtime can sabotage much-needed rest. I’ve been there – mind spinning despite exhaustion. Here are a few tricks that have helped calm my anxious brain and ease the transition to sleep:

• Write a quick to-do list for the next day. Getting those reminders out of your head takes the pressure off.
• Do a short meditation or breathing exercise to quiet mental chatter. I love the Calm app.
• Read something light and boring. A dense textbook helps shut off overactive thoughts.
• Listen to soothing sounds or white noise to muffle worries. Rain sounds work like magic.
• Remind yourself lack of sleep won’t ruin tomorrow. Our brains exaggerate consequences when tired.
• Put away screens! The blue light stimulates your brain into alertness.
• Sip chamomile tea or warm milk to relax. Comfort drinks can lull you drowsily.

Give those a go next time an overactive mind keeps you up. Don’t despair – with experimentation we can find what works to ease nightly angst. Sweet dreams!

Oh, I feel you on those racing thoughts, friend. My mind does marathons at bedtime too!

“Did I lock the door?” “Will I screw up tomorrow if I don’t sleep?” It’s easy for our brains to spiral into overthinking mode when exhausted. Even the room being too quiet can weirdly trigger anxiety at night.

But take comfort – you’re not alone in this nightly struggle! I’ve battled insomnia for years and discovered little tricks to help my thoughts STFU and unwind. We can retrain our restless brains with some patience.

Pregnant ladies, I see you too! Growing a human amps the worry meter up to 11. Let’s team up to nurture both your bump and your sleep.

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Insomnia, you fickle beast. There are so many flavors – not just struggling to fall asleep, but also staying asleep. Whether it’s onset insomnia keeping you from initially dozing off, or maintenance insomnia waking you frequently, the effects really drag you down.

Lack of zzz’s dampens everything – mood, focus, health. It’s sadly super common too. Though we need 7-9 hours of quality shut-eye, about a third of us clock less than 7.

I’ve been there. Tossing, turning, checking the clock all night long. Work and relationships suffer. You feel like a husk of a human. Not fun!

The key is acknowledging sleep has gotten off track and taking steps to get it back on course. There are so many little tweaks we can test to find the right recipe for restful slumber. We’ll get you dozing peacefully again, I promise!

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1. Looking at screens before bed.

That funny joyless chuckle when the doctor says “limit screen time before bed.” Easier said than done, right?

But alas, the experts aren’t just pickin’ on our phone addiction. Science shows blue light from screens actually suppresses melatonin and shifts circadian rhythms. Our poor brains get tricked into thinking it’s daytime, sabotaging sleep.

I’d argue sleepy scrolling is today’s norm, not the exception. But improving sleep requires breaking norms! So I started leaving my phone downstairs before bed. Those first nights were tough, ngl.

But within a week my body adjusted to the cozy new routine. Now I fall asleep faster and wake more refreshed. Small habit changes can have big impact!

Even just reducing phone use an hour before bed can help. Give it a try and be patient with yourself as you form new patterns. Sweet rest awaits on the other side. Our dopamine-addled brains just need time to rewire and cooperate.

2. Having the TV on in your bedroom.

Ah, my old friend bedroom TV. We’ve spent many a cozy night together…until I realized your dulcet tones were sabotaging my sleep.

It seems counterintuitive – wouldn’t gentle background noise be calming? But experts say the constant chatter keeps our minds engaged, delaying that delicious descent into sleep far longer than we realize.

Passively viewing or listening also strains to focus amid cluttered sensory input. Our groggy brains can’t properly relax and transition to sleep mode. No wonder I konked out quicker after unplugging the bedroom TV!

Finding other rituals to unwind sans screens took experimenting. A hot bath sipped slowly, followed by reading in lamplight worked wonders. Try establishing new habits that give your senses a collective bedtime signal.

You’ve got this! Small steps towards better TV-free sleep quickly compound. Here’s to waking refreshed and ready to seize the day.

3. Engaging in social interaction.

Ah yes, the siren call of “quick” social media scrolls before bed. I swear that endless feed is a black hole stretching time itself! Next thing I know, it’s 1 AM.

Experts warn the mental stimulation from socializing – whether chatting with friends or scrolling feeds – signals our bodies to stay alert when we should be winding down.

Comparing ourselves to carefully curated online lives breeds worry and envy too. These heavy feelings spark ruminating thoughts that run riot as we’re trying to sleep. No bueno.

I tested a week’s social media detox before bed. Those first nights I reflexively reached for my phone, only to remember – no more mindless scrolling!

But within days I adapted. My pre-sleep routine morphed into bath, book, bed. Ahhhh, blissful release from the urge to socialize 24/7.

Try gradually easing off social interaction and media at night. Discomfort means it’s working! Savor reclaiming that pre-sleep time for yourself. Our minds need space to unwind sans stimulation.

4. Working from your bed — at any time of day.

Ah yes, the ubiquitous work from home struggle – resisting the siren song of “just one more email” beckoning from bed. I’ve been lured by that devious inbox myself!

But the experts warn against mixing work and sleep spaces for good reason. Our brains receive mixed signals trying to transition between concentration and relaxation in one spot. Neither work nor sleep end up high quality.

Even one “quick” email nudges the brain into alert mode when we desperately need it to wind down. Over time, the bed-sleep connection frays to the point insomnia can set in. Not exactly a productive tradeoff!

So I made my bedroom a work-free oasis. The first week involved lots of tempted side-glances at my laptop from bed. But sticking faithfully to the boundary shifted my habits.

Now when I enter my serene sleep space, the change of scenery automatically cues my brain: no more work, just sweet rest ahead. Try demarcating your spaces and see if your mindset shifts too!

5. Reading a thriller.

You read my mind! I discovered the hard way that gripping thriller novels do not prime my brain for blissful slumber. Though enthralling, all that adrenaline and intrigue amp up cortisol instead of cueing my body to unwind. Not an ideal pre-sleep combo.

Page-turners keep the mind churning full tilt even after we turn off the lights. That mental momentum can spark unsettling dreams or insomnia. Not the nighttime tranquility we’re after!

So I swapped pulse-pounding thrillers for lighter reading before bed – spiritual texts, short poetry, young adult fiction. I also adore lulling fairy tale apps like Calm. Soothing narration and lovely imagery make drifting off a breeze.

Experiment to find what eases your mind into sleepy satisfaction. Our minds need time to decompress after mentally stimulating material. Prioritize serene content as your evening wind-down ritual. Sweet dreams await!

6. Eating just before bed.

Balancing nutrition and rest proves tricky. Late suppers keep our bodies revved, unable to properly digest before bed. But bellies growling fury impede sleep too! Where’s the sweet spot?

Experts suggest a light, fiber-filled snack 1-2 hours before bedtime. Complex carbs provide sustaining energy without heavy processing. I’ve found a turkey sandwich on whole grain or apple with nut butter ideal.

Watch out for saturated fats and sugars earlier in the day too – they spike cortisol, which disrupts deep sleep. I never connected my dinnertime indulgences to restless nights before!

With mindful meals and timed snacking, we can nourish bodies without sacrificing sleep. Your patience as you find the right formula will pay off in restful dividends. Here’s to discovering your optimal balance for both nutrition and nightly renewal.

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7. Don’t Work Out Right Before Bed.

Exercise helps you sleep deeply and destress. But nighttime workouts can overstimulate and make it tough to doze off.

“Exercise boosts slow wave sleep, rejuvenating mind and body,” said Roeske. “It also stabilizes mood and decompresses the mind for quality rest.”

However, endorphins and adrenaline from late training can leave you wired and restless instead of sleepy.

The fix? Allow 3-4 hours between exercise and bedtime. I aim for morning workouts and relaxing nights. It takes planning but the payoff of great sleep is worth it!

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8. Alcohol Disrupts Sleep Cycles

Having drinks before bed seems like it would make you drowsy. But alcohol actually prevents deep, quality sleep.

“Alcohol suppresses the central nervous system, causing initial sleepiness,” said psychologist Nathan Brandon. “However, it inhibits entering deeper sleep stages.”

Alcohol also increases bathroom trips, breaking sleep further. I found even one cocktail near bedtime made me toss and turn.

The solution? Finish drinks at least 3 hours before bedtime. Hydrate well in between too. You’ll sleep more soundly from start to finish without nightcaps.

Your groggy mornings will thank you! Be patient as your body adjusts to the new routine. The uninterrupted restful slumber is so worth it.

9. Create a Caffeine Curfew

We all know coffee keeps us awake – yet many of us sip it late without realizing the impact. Caffeine’s sleep-disrupting effects last for hours.

“Stop drinking caffeine by early afternoon, at minimum 6 hours before bed,” advised sleep coach Hall. Wise words!

I used to gulp coffee til dinner, then wonder why I tossed and turned all night. Setting a 2pm caffeine curfew was a game changer.

Now I satisfy evening cravings with herbal tea or decaf. No more counting sleepless hours fueled by ill-timed java!

Be patient as your body adjusts to earlier caffeine cutoffs. Within a week or two, you’ll sleep soundly through the night. Just takes commitment and small steps.

Sweet dreams await! An earlier caffeine stop benefits sleep and next-day energy. Your mind and body will thank you.

10. Soak Up Sunlight for Better Sleep

Do you work indoors all day? Lack of natural light could hurt your sleep. Getting outside regulates circadian rhythms that control our sleep-wake cycle.

“Light is the most powerful cue for our internal body clock,” said Aslund. “Morning light helps nighttime sleep, while evening light delays it.”

I started taking a 30-minute midday walk. Sunshine gives my sleep-regulating brain clock a boost! I also dim lights in the evening to wind down.

Making sleep a priority means structuring daylight and darktime deliberately. Be patient as your rhythm realigns. The impact on deep, restorative sleep is so worth it!

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11. Stick to Consistent Sleep Routines

I know – some nights you just need to stay up late binge watching shows! But bouncing between varied bedtimes and wake-up calls disrupts your body’s sleep-wake rhythm.

“Try your best to maintain the same bed and rise times daily,” advised Dr. Hamdani. “This ensures you feel tired at night and awake in the mornings.”

Naps throw off natural cycles too. I started tracking my habits using a sleep app, which revealed just how chaotic my schedule was.

It took discipline, but I committed to a consistent 11pm bedtime and 7am alarm. Within a couple weeks my energy and productivity soared from the regularity.

Realigning sleep patterns requires patience and dedication. But the impact on mental and physical health makes it so worthwhile. You’ve got this!

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12. Build a Relaxing Pre-Sleep Routine

Creating a relaxing buffer before bed makes all the difference for sound sleep. Experts suggest 30-60 minutes to unwind before lights out.

Wind-down activities like hot showers, gentle yoga, mindfulness, or reading allow our minds to switch out of work mode into rest mode more easily. The transition is key for falling and staying asleep.

I established a nightly ritual of stretching, lavender tea, journaling, and cuddling with my partner. Having familiar cues tells my brain it’s time to relax into bedtime.

Be patient finding your optimal wind-down routine. But the investment pays off exponentially in better sleep! A peaceful pre-sleep transition makes all the difference.

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13. Create a Tranquil Sleep Sanctuary

Our bedroom environments influence sleep as much as habits. Make your sleep space a relaxing oasis optimized for rest.

Experts recommend keeping it clean, cool, and clutter-free. A calm organized room helps your mind unwind from the day’s stresses into sleep mode.

I decluttered and now keep my bedroom strictly for sleep and intimacy. Soft blankets, scented candles, plush carpeting and blackout curtains complete my personal sleep sanctuary.

The difference is remarkable – I fall asleep faster and sleep more soundly surrounded by serenity. Be patient creating your ideal soothing environment. Quality rest awaits!

Small steps to customize your sleep space pay off exponentially. Surround yourself with what calms and comforts. Sweet dreams begin from the surroundings in.

14. Quiet Racing Thoughts Before Bed

Ah, lying in bed with thought spirals running wild – no bueno for peaceful slumber! Our solitary still moments often breed worry.

“Bedtime tends to be the only time we’re alone with our thoughts,” said Frederick. “Anxious musings about life keep our minds revved.”

I started journaling frenetically flowing thoughts before bed. Putting them on paper releases them from my brain so I can switch to sleep mode.

It takes discipline not to ruminate in bed. But redirecting thoughts constructively has led to much sounder sleep.

Be patient – it takes time to retrain thought patterns. But the investment pays dividends in restful nights! Sweet dreams start with settling the cluttered mind.

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Having difficulty sleeping despite changing habits? Consider seeing a sleep specialist.

Undiagnosed sleep disorders like delayed sleep phase syndrome keep people awake and scrolling for hours despite feeling exhausted.

“Disordered body clocks prevent sleep at normal times,” explained Dr. Ford. “People aren’t inherently procrastinating – they physically can’t fall asleep earlier.”

Sleep struggles aren’t necessarily a failure of willpower. Professional guidance can provide clarity and solutions tailored to your unique situation.

Prioritize taking that first step toward better rest. You deserve to discover the root causes disrupting your slumber. Respite awaits those who persist through confusion and frustration!

With compassionate medical care, the path to deep tranquil nights often proves surprisingly straightforward. Here’s to uncovering what your mind and body need to finally get some quality shut-eye!

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