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As a 30-year-old woman, I’m constantly discovering new changes happening in my body. We’re all in this together – women in the BuzzFeed Community recently shared surprising bodily experiences. I was fascinated to learn:
1. Early Menopause at 34: My Unexpected Journey Through Sudden Body Changes
I started gaining a little weight for the first time. Being underweight, I thought my body was adjusting to my illness. But I wasn’t losing weight despite being extremely active. Then, my sex drive plummeted overnight.
No one listened to me. A female OBGYN even suggested, “Maybe you don’t feel like having sex anymore because you’ve put on weight.”
Later, I began experiencing severe night sweats. I told my doctor, “This isn’t normal anymore.” She agreed and ordered more blood work. When she called me personally, I knew it wasn’t good news.
She said, “Well, this is a first… it’s menopause.” I was shocked and had others verify it. They were equally surprised. My doctor explained, “You’re not the only person in the world, but you’re my first patient with this, and it’s a first for a few other doctors too!”
It felt devastating. While I don’t want more children – I’m happy with my one – the choice was taken away. My body and metabolism changed completely. And I’m only turning 35 in July.
2. Surviving Heavy Periods: My Journey from Disbelief to Solutions
Heavy bleeders, listen up: You’re likely anemic. But don’t rush to take iron – it might cause vomiting or constipation. Instead, try ferrous gluconate. It made a huge difference in my life when I took it daily.
My periods lasted seven days, with one day so heavy I couldn’t leave the house. I had to change my pad every 20-30 minutes. For years, doctors didn’t believe me. They said the pain was normal and suggested heating pads and walks.
At work, self-adhesive muscle cramp pads helped manage the pain. It wasn’t until I started using a menstrual cup that a doctor finally suggested endometrial ablation as a potential solution.
3. The Unexpected Whiskers: A Menopausal Secret
No one warned me about the wild nose hair growth near menopause.
Sure, I knew about chin and upper lip hair from my mom. But nose hairs? That was her best-kept secret.
She only revealed it on her deathbed. That’s how private she was about it.
Pregnancy can be brutal. I had hyperemesis, which meant:
- Throwing up 20 times a day
- Vomiting throughout the entire pregnancy
- Even cracking a rib in my third trimester
I remember sobbing over a bucket, thinking:
“There’s no way my baby will survive this.”
The guilt was overwhelming. I felt like my body wasn’t up to the challenge.
4. Temporary Torments: The Unexpected Trials of Twin Pregnancy
During my twin pregnancy, I faced two major challenges:
- Carpal Tunnel Syndrome
- Affected both arms severely
- Had to wear arm braces almost constantly
- Feared permanent loss of arm sensation
- Extreme Morning Sickness
- Could only eat crackers, ginger ale, and bland chicken
- Needed medication (Diclegis) to eat anything else
The surprising part? Both issues vanished almost immediately after giving birth!
Before delivery, I was so worried that I started looking for orthopedic doctors. I couldn’t imagine these problems ever improving.
But they did. It’s amazing how pregnancy can cause such intense, yet temporary, issues.
5. The Mysterious Seafood Aversion: A Breastfeeding Puzzle
During my second child’s breastfeeding period:
• I suddenly couldn’t eat fish or seafood
• It felt like a seafood allergy
• Eating seafood made me throw up
What I did:
- Got numerous allergy tests
- Results: No allergies detected
The surprise:
• Once I stopped breastfeeding, I could eat seafood again!
My doctor’s response:
“There’s so much we still don’t know about women’s bodies.”
This experience shows how mysterious and complex our bodies can be, especially during motherhood.
6. Coping with Periods: My Sensory-Friendly Solution
My experience:
• I have sensory issues related to menstruation
• Solution: I wear disposable gloves when dealing with it
The impact:
• It’s done wonders for my mental health
A note:
• I know it’s not the most eco-friendly option
• But it helps me manage my condition effectively
7. Cracking the Code: Solving My Daughter’s Hormonal Migraines
The Mystery:
• My daughter suffered from unexplained migraines
• We were puzzled for the first year or two
• Her menstrual cycle was still irregular
The Discovery:
• At age 13, we finally figured it out
• Diagnosis: Hormonal migraines
The Solution:
• Her gynecologist was incredibly helpful
• We tried several low-dose birth control pills
• Eventually, we found one that worked for her
Key Takeaway:
Sometimes, it takes time and patience to understand our bodies, especially during adolescence.
—pahz
8. Misdiagnosed and Dismissed: My Ovarian Nightmare
The Initial ER Visit:
• Severe lower right abdominal pain
• Ultrasound showed appendix was fine
• Sent home despite pain
The Second ER Visit:
• Returned next day, still in agony
• ER surgeon insisted it wasn’t appendicitis
• Agreed to remove appendix “to be sure”
Post-Surgery Complications:
• Woke up in even more pain
• Doctor pushed more morphine
• Claimed I had “low pain threshold”
• Blood pressure dropped dangerously low
The Real Problem Discovered:
• Nurse suggested checking ovaries
• Found huge 10 cm cyst
• Diagnosed with ovarian torsion
• Second surgery needed to drain cyst
Long-Term Consequences:
• Over 10 years later, facing fertility issues
• All due to a surgeon’s overconfidence
Key Takeaway:
Always advocate for yourself when something feels wrong. Medical professionals can make mistakes too.
9. A Confusing Medical Experience
“I had an abnormal Pap smear a few years ago, even though I had received the HPV vaccine and had never been sexually active. I had to undergo a colposcopy, and the doctor didn’t believe me when I said I was a virgin. My next Pap smear was normal, and I never figured out what happened.”
10. A Challenging Pregnancy Journey
“I had gestational diabetes with my second son and pre-eclampsia with both pregnancies. Almost immediately after finding out I was pregnant with my youngest, my blood pressure skyrocketed, and I had to take blood pressure tablets. I experienced three bleeds, which doctors unsuccessfully tried to link to my periods. We never discovered the cause.
I also had diastasis symphysis pubis, where the cartilage between the two front parts of the pelvic girdle moves to allow the baby’s head down. This condition caused a lot of pain, and I didn’t receive physiotherapy, support, or crutches. Additionally, I was unaware that I needed to do exercises after birth to repair the muscles. I suffered from hyperemesis gravidarum throughout my first pregnancy and felt unheard by my healthcare providers. The theory is that pregnancy can exacerbate your body’s weaknesses. I suspect I had PCOS, but in the 1980s, nobody listened much.”
— sfd19681
11. Struggling with Early Menstrual Problems
“I remember my first period when I was 11 years old. My periods lasted two weeks, and I experienced horrible cramps that worsened each month. After a year, I was told this was normal and that I didn’t need to do anything about it. They advised me to return if the issues persisted for more than two years. So, I came back the next year, and by that time, my cramps had become so debilitating that I was often missing school.”
“My doctor gave me birth control, which worked for a couple of months. However, whenever I took a week break to have my period, it came back even worse than before. My cramps persisted throughout the month even with the pills. Because I was having abnormally heavy periods, we decided to try the Depo shot. After getting the shot, I stopped having my period for a couple of days but then ended up bleeding constantly for four entire months. I had a period for all 120 days.”
12. Enduring Post-Concussion Syndrome
“I’ve had post-concussion syndrome for two and a half years. My neurologist thinks menopause may be my only respite from the headaches at this point. I can’t wait for menopause, and that’s saying something.”
— aran12
13. Pregnancy Complicated by Ureteral Stents
“I had four ureteral stents placed during my pregnancy. My body would calcify them within a week. After four stents, my urologist decided not to place any more because he was concerned that repeated sedation, X-rays, and other procedures were too risky for the baby and me. Plus, the stents never lasted. The minute my baby was born, I felt like a new person.”
14. Unexpected Post-C-Section Experience
“No one told me that large clots are common after delivering via C-section. I’m not sure if it’s normal after vaginal delivery because I haven’t had one. But a clot the size of the palm of my hand came out of my body, and after an emergency OBGYN visit, I learned that it was just part of the deal. They told me to come in if the clots were larger than the palm of my hand. Holy crap, I thought I was dying.”
If you have your own story, share it with me in the comments below!
